U know my 72 year old mother told me when the time comes she die die will not want any plastic tube to go through her nose down her throat to her stomach just to keep her alive for the amusement of those who are suppose to love her.
I was shocked... needless to say... and I understood and accepted her decision. Holding on is for the living to burden... not the dying. Grace is important to her... and sometimes people tend to forget letting go is a release for both the living and the dying.
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